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WOMEN WHO PURSUE MARRIED MEN

WOMEN WHO PURSUE MARRIED MEN
WOMEN WHO PURSUE MARRIED MEN
WOMEN WHO PURSUE MARRIED MEN
On a daily basis women experience other women trying to pursue their husbands. Some husbands fall into an affair and some do not. My question is why do women who know that a man is married choose to pursue. If an affair occurs (their are multiple types of affairs e.g emotional , sexual etc....)This may lead to lifelong trauma and stress for the wife and husband. Psychology today lists these as possible permanent effects:
Repeated intrusive thoughts.
Unstable emotional regulation.
Out of body experiences.
Alternating between feeling numb and striking out in retaliation.
Inability to stop scanning for any new data that might cause more distress.
Feeling overwhelmingly powerlessness and broken.
Needing to regain self-worth by assigning blame.
Confusion and disorientation.
Why do women do this?
Please share your thoughts and personal experiences.


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I agreed with Graciela and Powerful Minds that victims can suffer from phycological effect. As someone that has suffered, I agreed with all the symptoms Graciela has posted. Fortunately, I have a good family and friends support that helped me get through this process.

01-Aug-2020

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Yes, family support is crucial in overcoming psychological trauma. I am glad that you are fortunate to have that. 

02-Aug-2020

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Hello Graciela, 

I found your post very interesting, especially you question about why do women do this? Are we becoming our own enemy in society? Why should we blame another women for trying to pursue our husband/boyfriend when this person has no relevance in our lives? On the other hand, isn't our husband/boyfriend that has a legal or emotional attachment with us? Isn't he the one suppose to respect the relationship? Raks**ta Pandey wrote an article about this problem and she mentioned that men usually get attracted to other women as a result of a deficiency or a lack of satisfaction (emotional/sexual) in their present relationship.  We as women have to found common ground on this topic and involve men on this discussion.

01-Aug-2020

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In some ways, I do believe that we are becoming our worst enemies. Especially when women pursue men that are already married. Women who do that have no respect for themselves,  for a marriage, or how the wife may feel. Husbands are supposed to respect and many times they do. It is the women who try to pursue regardless of the marriage/relationship even if the man does not want to initiate a relationship.

In reference to men becoming attracted to other women because of lack of emotional/sexual satisfaction in a relationship does not remove the fact that a women chooses to pursue or engage in an affair with someone who is married.

Further, there are many reasons why affairs occur, at times it can be very complex. Further, that was not the central topic of my post.

It was why women pursue/engage in affairs with married men?

02-Aug-2020

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